A little bit of everything!

Well, about me - I'm not totally great, I'm not completely stupid, I'm not an angel - but I'm a little bit of everything and that makes me! 
Always thought life was perfect. It is but not in way that you get whatever you want! If things go wrong, it won't last. If things go right, it won't last either. Life teaches you lessons throughout. You either digest it or just crib - it's your call. Never regret because if it's good- it's gonna be wonderful and if it's bad- it's gonna be an experience. 

I have seen myself transforming from a very shy little girl to being a not-so-quiet little(even now) girl. A girl who never really opened up in school - to someone who had to be whacked so that she would shut. How did that happen? The answer to this question is my next blog. #WINK 

Talking about my life, There were people who kept telling me to forgive and forget?? Well my way is a bit different.. I forgive but I NEVER forget, I Learn from my mistakes but I NEVER regret. Forgive people who deserve to be forgiven and not every dumb-ass who doesn't really care. The biggest mistake of my life was not following my instincts. I was dumb enough because I followed someone else's. It worked for me in a way. I can face the most toughest situations in life because I know I'm strong (Never knew that!). It's rightly said, experience is the best teacher. I have been dumped, ditched, treated like shit but does it really matter? It does. Now I know what I am really worth. 

The best-est bunch of friends, equally best "so-called-haters", ever loving "mother India' (mom), not so serious "daddy cool", always up to some mischief "cranky baby sister" and all those who come under my relatively huge family tree -all of the above mixed with uncertainties - That's my life's recipe. It's like a roller coaster ride - one point you feel like you are on the top of the world and the next moment you are *err* back to earth. 

Worst: The feeling when the only girl I ever trusted never stood by my side, knowing a douche-bag who turned out to be the biggest loser on the face of the earth(Just being modest since its a blog!) and being surrounded by BMW's (bitches, mourners and whiners) for two years. 

Best : My TRUE friends, loved ones & a place called HOME! These are the things worth living and fighting for. 

That's a little bit of everything which makes my life PER-FECT! 




Comments

  1. Crystal Caralagh5 October 2013 at 08:35

    Wow Jul! Love the strong strength of emotion running through the post.
    I may be an outlier to you, (Possibly somewhere in that BMW bunch ? ) but it's great in a way that you have found yourself.

    I sound like some yogic weirdo, but I think after everything else, the fact that we see how unbreakable we actually are, makes anything thrown at us insignificant.

    On another note, you've finally caught the bug of blogging :P

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  2. Salvious Ls5 October 2013 at 23:18

    hmmm...finally i get to know atleast something about Jul..!!!

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  3. Unknown2 December 2013 at 07:25

    reflects ur persona totally! and i got to noe ur inner side too :)

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  4. Jul Sharlin4 December 2013 at 00:23

    Thanks Upal! :-)

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